I have a friend who holds a few pattents, and I went to her when I was considering getting a pattent on something a few months back. She had 3 pieces of advice for me.
1, Incorperate, or form a LLC. anything you pattent, you're liable for, even if the design is stolen. She did point out that someone sueing over injury from a stolen iodea would probably loose, but it would still go to court, and could be expensive.
2. Don't show anyone. if you post pics on the internet, then someone can see it after the pattent, copy it, then claim they saw it before the pattent was given, and be able to produce your design at will.
3 Don't bother. If its a good idea, it will be stolen by someone, produced in china, and sold. There is almost no recourse. You can sue, you could even win. But they still won't pay, and they will keep on producing your idea.