As I mentioned, I'm working on trying not to judge, and would prefer solutions that don't require making too many judgements. I also prefer that ES continues to accumulate more knowledge, regardless of these behavioral issues. I favor member preferences in order to place as much of the forum experience in the control of the member, while reducing administrative burden. I acknowledge that behavioral issues are not always in the member's own control, and could even be medical related, and finding a solution where they may still contribute, without offending others, would be the optimal and most inclusive solution.
Perhaps the technology is available to do something like this:
Create 3 parameters, 2 for use by members and 1 by admins. Each parameter contains 4 or 5 levels, TBD.
Parameters are all set to 1 when a new user joins. The member parameters can be changed based on their own preference.
The levels are all defined the same, but used for different purposes.
Level 1 represents a "G" rating (meant for all audiences; think Nickelodeon channel; Mr. Rogers)
Level 5 is "X" rated (like some of our friend on the no-no list)
Member -
- Parameter 1 - Based on preferences, members can set a tolerance level for the max level they would like to be exposed to.
- Parameter 2 - Based on preferences, member can set a parameter for the level they would like to be designated as, which may be higher than 1. This allows a member a member to avoid ruffling feathers of those that may be more sensitive (I'd probably set it at least to 2 for myself, to allow some PG rated humor, etc., and less coddling). This value can be changed upward, by admins if warranted. This preference will also set the floor for what the member sees from other members as well.
Admin -
- Parameter 2-prime - Based on behaviors, admins may change a level 1 to 2, 3, 4 or 5 if warranted. This may override a member's preference Parameter 2 upwards.
This system, for the admins, removes the anxiety over putting members on time out or other more drastic measures, while allowing users to be exposed to what they want to see, as well as allowing members to feel less restrained or restricted, wondering whether they may offend others. The member is fully in charge of what they see and what is seen by who, for their own posts. The system can't really be abused, since the parameters only affect the member's preferences. The member can change the parameters to be exposed to more or less, whenever they want. If you're in a crunchy mood, you may set your own parameter higher and still continue to contribute to the forum without worrying about offending folks with a lower tolerance. If there are complaints, the admins simply need to discuss, and change the level upwards, based on the agreed upon definitions of each level.