If you're going to adjust the balancing voltage, go down to 4.10V or even 4.00V, 4.18V is nothing. The idea is to reduce the level of charge to limit it to something like 80-90%, 4.18V is basically 100%. Check the charge curve for your particular cells, but 80-90% should be in the 4.0-4.1V range. Doesn't take much balancing current unless you want really fast charging to 100% (which you don't seem to), and even then it isn't too important as long as you can periodically let it sit and balance for longer. 84mA of balance current like the datasheet Ykick posted will take care of 1Ah of imbalance in about 12 hours. Assuming you're not piecing the pack together with used laptop and power tool cells that are in varying states of health, they should stay pretty well balanced.