I have two 48v 20Ah VPower LiFePO4 batteries in parallel in my EVT168 (a 1500w escooter that draws at a peak of nearly 7000w, but I try to keep it at 2000w or less with one eye on the cycleanalyst). On a side note, although purchased at the same time, one battery was delivered unbalanced, probably due to a disconnected connector on the bms. Anyways, I have them connected in parallel but disconnectable from each other using some cheap $1 1500W AC light switches. (I've actually doubled up on the switches [in parallel again] so I figure they act like 3000W switches). I charge the batteries seperately (switches off) using two 5A chargers and the time it takes seems fairly close, like maybe a 5-10% difference (I hope that means they discharge somewhat evenly during use). However, I've forgotten to switch them apart on 2 occasions at least and I've ended up charging both in parallel with 2 chargers at the same time. It seemed to work fine. Unrelated to those 2 charges (a completely different time), my thermistor blew in one of the chargers (an easy fix once I determined the specs of the thermistor) and in the meantime I was able to charge both batteries in parallel using only one charger, which of course takes twice as long as usual. That saved me the time of changing the charger over to the other battery once one was charged.
It seems like the unbalanced battery is having trouble with one or two weak cells now, but that's another story. My vehicle is also very underpowered at 40Ah total, and maybe I'll just let it sit and try to get some ebikes going with the packs instead (my copout plan in case this setup didn't work in the first place), and wait until battery technology (or economics) makes it more feasible.
Sorry if this post seems irrelevant to the issue of diodes and such, but I thought I'd just throw in my experience with the parallel hookup bit.