I certainly feel your frustration. I read many of the old posts, and I copy the links onto a document with a one-sentence description of whats in the link. I occasionally remember a good search word that will take me to a certain thread to answer a question, but I have only saved and indexed the posts that apply to what I am working on.
Concerning the motors from Hobby King, The only ones that I know of with the skirt bearing are the
63-74-200
63-54-250
63-64-280
80-85-170
80-100-130
Hyperion Z4045 10T 320-kV, (there may be others)
What would you like to end up with? a friction-drive with a separate motor and roller? a motor-shell friction-drive like Kepler/Drifter? or perhaps a left-side-drive like Matt/Bubba, where the motor drives a chain linked to the back wheel? How fast do you want to go, and what range do you need? Also what bike will you use and what is your budget?