e-beach said:
bowlofsalad said:
Sorry to be a buzz kill but, Is ageism really necessary? Say what you want, I won't try and stop you, but ageism is a sad idea to follow. Complain all you want about ignorant walkers, but that is nothing worth pondering about compared with a cell phone using (texting or talking) car driver.
OH-OH....touched a nerve did we? :lol:
It has nothing to do with age and everything to do with being oblivious to the point of zombie like behavior. I had one yesterday whom was in his 30's, ear plugs in his ears, looking down at his "device" and despite my yelling at him to be "careful" he nearly walked himself right into my front tire before he saw it, then jumping out of his skin upon seeing me directly in front of him.
In my city is is legal to ride on the sidewalks as long as you are doing it "safely." It this case I was as far right as I could go (as drivers around here drive and ride on the right side of the road.) He on the other hand had drifted as far to his left (my right) and was nowhere near the side of the sidewalk he should have been walking on to pass safely.
Being used to the zombies in my city I had seen this one coming and was slowing down to the point on near standstill and yelling "careful".....Careful!" But this zombie was just too plugged in for his own good and saw me only at the last moment.
He may have had to throw away his shorts. :lol:
Cool story.
It might be legal to smoke tobacco cigarettes around people who don't smoke, but it doesn't make those people any less of a POS when they do so. The same goes for riding on the side walk, I don't recommend riding on the sidewalk unless a sidewalk is more of a wide path and less of a sidewalk. I suggest you pass with extreme caution (this means going slowly), give as much space as possible, and assume everyone you pass is blind, deaf, and likely to start jumping and rolling around like they are on fire at any moment. Guess that anyone walking will have zero respect for you, expect nothing from someone walking on a path and you won't be so upset and disappointed. Just be glad they didn't start swinging at you with rage or something, that is how I feel and I love every person I pass for it.
I am aware that anyone of any age can be ignorant and oblivious to their surroundings this is a partial catalyst to why I made my comment. So, my comment about ageism related to specifically what OP said, "even worse...teens,mostly,texting". You can read about ageism https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ageism here.
"Ageism, or age discrimination is stereotyping and discriminating against individuals or groups because of their age. It is a set of beliefs, attitudes, norms, and values used to justify age based prejudice, discrimination, and subordination. This may be casual or systematic. The term was coined in 1969 by Robert Neil Butler to describe discrimination against seniors, and patterned on sexism and racism. Butler defined Ageism as a combination of three connected elements. Among them were prejudicial attitudes towards older people, old age, and the aging process; discriminatory practices against older people; and institutional practices and policies that perpetuate stereotypes about older people. The term has also been used to describe prejudice and discrimination against adolescents and children, including ignoring their ideas because they are too young, or assuming that they should behave in certain ways because of their age."
I am in agreement that lots of people are painfully disrespectful and incredibly ignorant and oblivious to their surroundings. But I am in disagreement that teens or anyone of any age, gender, race should be singled out as the greatest culprits of this negative behavior. As I tried to suggest, the worst of it isn't a 13 year old walking around with their eyes glued to a cell phone, the worst is a 25 year old driving while using a cell phone. I can live with zombie walkers, I might not be able to survive zombie drivers.