I'll use simpler language:
To accommodate the 'stuff' needed to assure a connector 'spark-less', its' shell or enclosure has to increase in size to include the 'stuff' within. Generally the connector systems I'm familiar with make use of both connector 'genders' to render a spark-less design. However in most cases this also reduces the total 'instantaneous' current-carrying ability of the connector system. I.e mostly useless for an e-vehicle. External methods of spark reduction using way larger stuff is far more effective and can be sized to accommodate any current transfer.
BTW for the last several decades I've found many manufactured connector types that no longer fit together using different manufactured (but the same) types, as I recently experienced with MT90 connectors, TRS connectors and XLR 3-4 pin connectors from various manufacturing plants. The only way to be assured of a correct-fitting connection is using a single manufacturer for both sets of connectors... not good for anyone.
I suspect some of this incompatibility is because many connectors were initially designed using imperial measurements (USA and UK) and are now being made using metric sizings (almost the same but not quite, highly useful playing the game 'horseshoes' but otherwise makes for spectacular near misses)
I assumed you needed info to stop sparking your connections so I included extra info.