Ah, now I see. I thought you had gotten a smooth 20mm axle that passed all the way through the fork ends, hence my question about how you remove the wheel. But those are just sleeves as in your drawing above.
Sleeving the axle can seriously reinforce it, BUT only if there is a lot of axial preload compression on the sleeve, so a bending load doesn't cause the sleeve to part from the face it mates up to. That is, the sleeve must be bolted on, and it must be bolted on very tight, maybe tighter than it's reasonable to expect from an interrupted thread like the one on a hub motor axle. Otherwise the joint between axle face and sleeve is just a stress concentrator.
See if your wife and a wad of cash can sweet talk the manufacturer (or failing that, someone else) into making you a 20mm axle. If you don't think the fork end clamps will retain the motor torque, then have a square milled on the end and a matching hole cut into the torque arm.