I see.
Re throttle control … with low power setups you don’t use the throttle range, it’s full gas all the time. For low speed manoeuvring, and around pedestrians and the like, you should not be applying motor power, even partial throttle, that’s how accidents happen. Use your legs for those situations.
Re motor braking … I wouldn’t recommend it with a little motor, because it heats the motor too much. And if there’s a gear reduction via belt or chain or helical cut gears, I really really wouldn’t recommend it. If you want brake cutoff, you can have that without a controller, you just use an ebike brake lever with its switch in series with the power switch (BMS or relay activation). It’s kind of pointless, but does add some safety, because pulling the brake lever will cut power in the event that your momentary power switch seizes in the on position.
Re additional controller features … I can’t think of any that I’d want on a little scooter. What are you thinking? Perhaps a VESC has additional cool stuff, but typical little brushed motor controllers have none. Stuff like rear brake lights, horns, indicators … again you don’t need a controller for any of that, it’s just wires and buttons.
Re sourcing parts … Aliexpress, Amazon, Temu, other smaller online stores, electronics suppliers, or scrap equipment. Any old normally open momentary switch is all you need, and tiny is possible because it won’t carry significant current. If you want a quick easy install with minimum fuss, any of the 22.2mm clamp style ones with a “horn” button will do the job. The horn button is momentary. They often have a headlight switch, and often indicator switches incorporated, but I’m sure you can find one for horn only, which will only have two wires hanging out of it. For BMS, I salvage them out of old batteries, but buying from Chinese online stores should be doable. If you want fancy, the JBD ones are great and cheap, but somewhat large. You can use a relay instead of the BMS enable feature, but it’s nice if your BMS can perform the task - less components and wiring.
Anyway, all the best with it. Sometimes less is more. I’ve used homemade heel switches, where you kick off with your preferred leg, then literally step on the “throttle”. With rear mounted motors and batteries it’s very neat, with no wiring at all to the front of the scooter.