shoud use only one cross?
Open your chosen spoke calculator in two pages at the same time. In both, set the same rim.
In one, set a regular bicycle hub that you would use 3 cross with for strength. This has a small diameter for the spoke ends.
In the other, set your chosen motor as the hub. Change the cross setting until you get similar spoke angles.
What you will see is that due to the size of the motor hub, the angles result in 0 or 1 cross for the same spoke angles. It's due to the much greater size of the motor hub and has the same physical dynamics.
It's obvious if you do this side-by-side. On the motor page, you'll see that 1 or 2 of the crosses needed on the bicycle hub actually fall within the outer diameter of the motor hub, so what seems to be a 1 (or 0) cross on the motor is actually the same physics as the 3 cross on the much smaller standard bicycle hub.
As mentioned in the Grin page, motor makers also use a tactic of grouping the spoke holes on the motor flanges rather than spacing them equally around the hub as most bicycle hubs do. This has the effect of providing an offset and angle on the spoke that mimics a cross lacing even when the spokes physically don't cross with that motor.
I don't know if your motor has equally spaced spoke holes, but the size difference still applies.