Oh dude, you totally said it.
Cycling in America seems to be either for hardcore fitness fanatics or poor people. I am the guy who likes the $500 bikes but wishes parts were priced proportionally to the value of the bike, because i know the individual parts are damn cheap... yet, a part here, a part there, some service there, and i've paid half the cost of my bike already, because i can't find mid-grade parts... only high end!
I work on cars and know the cost of mass produced items. I put shocks and springs on my Nissan 200sx recently and it cost me about $500 in total, including mounting hardware and bushings! That's $125 per side, and those components should last me another 5 years, maybe longer. Yet, that's what a suspension fork with a disc brake mount costs!
Another example, i can buy a cheapo disc rotor for my car for the same price i can buy a cheapo disc rotor for my bike.. LOL
I think mass production really counts... we need more people on pedal/ebikes! things can only get cheaper. I will continue to advocate eBikes and hope things improve myself. Bicyclists are gouged for things just like audiophiles are, it seems.