bowlofsalad said:
Man-o-man, everything seems to be this way. 50 experts and they all have a different opinion on what the right way to do something is.
There are two issues here for setting things up. My wheel is very off center, I am trying to choose between off center dishing or using washers on the axle.
Same as everything. Just listen to me, ignore all the others
Seriously, it is OK to have the spokes all head one way, its done all the time for one reason or another. It is better to alternate them so that they have to bend around each other (go look at a normal bike wheel) where they cross, but I would not change it if you have already tightened the spokes. I probably would if I had just put them in and but they were still loose, but that's because I'm a perfectionist and it pleases me to do stuff like that. It's not strictly necessary.
As for dish. It is very important to center the tire in the bike. It will handle funny if you don't.
It is not hard to do, all derailleur bicycles have dished rear wheels. All it takes is to tighten the spokes more on the side that the rim needs to move toward and loosen on the other side. It take only a few turns of the nipple to move the rim. If you can use spacers/washers to move the hub in the frame that will reduce the amount of dish needed, which is good, so do that first, but don't go crazy bending the frame to take more spacers or anything.
To add dish, just go around the wheel the wheel a few times doing one turn of the nipples each time, tightening spokes on the tight side of the dish and loosening the other. The rim will move toward the tight side. If you think of of it in advance and need a lot of dish it is common to order shorter spokes for the flat side, but the difference is never more than 2mm, so don't worry about it, it will work fine either way. If your spokes were on the long side to start, you may have to grind the ends just a little if they stick up too far out of the nipples when you are done.
To check if you have the dish right, put the wheel in a truing stand (a bike makes an ok truing stand) and check the clearance from the rim to the stand/frame, the take the wheel out, flip it over, and put it in and check again. If the clearance is the same, you are good to go. A mm or even two of difference is fine, but less is better. It is best to start with a straight wheel when checking or it will be hard to measure dish accurately.
Also, do yourself a favor and read the late great Sheldon Browns
wheel building page if you have not already. This is authoritative, if someone tells you differently than Sheldon you will want a complete explanation before believing them. If you don't read the whole thing, at least read about
stress relieving. Stress reliving is not hard, just a little scary the first time, but makes a big difference in reliability of the wheel.