darkshirikens said:
... if the balance wire is shorter it will take more energy than the longer balance leads when discharging,
balance wires are not used for discharging unless you have a very special setup. Discharging is done through the main neg and pos leads for the whole battery pack.
darkshirikens said:
... or when the battery charges the shorter balance leads will charge those cells faster than the longer balance leads?
Unless you have a charger that consists of individual cell-chargers, the balance wires are not used for charging either. They are only used for balancing cells. Most balancing chargers balance cells at a very low current, so the actual length of the wires does not really matter.
But you're right. Theoretically speaking you want to keep length (and size) of the balancing wires as close to each other as possible.