For a lower amp setup, I just made Y connectors with 12 guage wire and 30 amp andersons. Obviously you don't get two 12 guage wires into a contact, so I cut away enough strands to stuff two wires into one contact for the paralell Y connection. I'll only be pulling 15 amps max from each battery so I figured it was ok. 22 amp controller, so I figured not much more than 15 amps from each wire. Have em both fully charged before you make the connection for sure! The can charge together, but much better to charge each pack seperate.
Yeah, I know, diodes would be good, but this is for my pair of 24v 8 ah nicads, that are considered recreational-expendable. On a long ride on my aotema motor, I could just get away with running 24v if the speed was slow and the route flat. Series connecting the batteries, it would be harder to ride slow and get the same range. 99% of the time, I run these two packs series connected. I made another connector for that so I could plug in a series connection without having to think about it so hard, and prevent a spectacular screw up.
I haven't seen a 45 amp contact, but it should be possible to crimp a 45 amp onto 12 guage wire. You could take some strands and add them to the 12 guage wire to make it fatter, crimp it, and then trim away the filler strands perhaps. Mabye two 12 guage wires could fit into the 45 amp?