about grinding them off, I have had it with bike spokes poking through, those holmes spokes are different I think, they wont protude for some reason, I'm no expert so I could not say why, but I have tried it off the wheel, and once the spoke reaches the top, that is it it wont go any further, I have a few extra you made me curious since you brought it up several times I'll double check.
also I believe the Holmes nipples are more like 12 mm not the 18 you mentioned before, for my build I cut back aprox 2mm ising the circumference measurement and ebikes.ca calculator, and it was about perfect, 1 mil shorter would have been better, 2 wont hurt nothing either, we can debate it all day but in the end when its all laced and starts to tighten and finds its seat, especially if doing a washer build like I did, on my next one I'd be probably going 3-4 mm shorter than what the calculator came up with. they may be a bit on the short side initially but over time they strech just right.
Again this is my unofficial opinion I am not a master wheel builder by any means.
George