Alright, I gave it a try with a 100w soldering iron with a tip that would fit between the mosfets.
I have one with a bigger tip, but that hit the chisel on the mosfets before touching the metal.
A picture to get a feel for the size I used.
And it worked really well, it was easier than I expected
I will run my copper plate out in this direction. I need it to clear those connections, but still leave room for all the mosfets.
This is how it turned out. The hardest part was to keep the mosfets from moving around when soldering.
Especially not to move the first row when soldering the second row.
I went for 6 charge mosfets, it should be plenty for max 50A charging.
I didnt expect 1mm to make a lot of difference to the leg length, but it did. I was able to bend them to touch the bord at least, then I added extra solder to the legs.
In the box. With the big wires in the "right" direction I could shorten the discharge (now P-) wire a little.
I do worry a little that there might be uneven load on the mosfets now, when I have both wires in the same direction.
Before, with the B- in one end of the copper plate, and C- at the other end of the other copper plate the resistance of the copper plates would even out.
Now it increases in both plates the further it gets from the wires.
I have no idea if it is a big problem, or a non issue..