@Zambam your message is both very helpful and supportive (thanks!) as well as sobering (...still thanks).
It was pretty stressful assembling, yet it honestly gave me a lot of good preparation for the other battery I'm building and sort of putting off...
Anyway, I stayed up till about 4am cst checking on it every 15 min as it charged in a 1945 steel rocket ammo can in the yard at the end of an extension cord last night. Not messing around with safety.
Your note about hot/cold cycling is... Well the scientist and engineer in me does cringe at that legitimate risk. I agree with you fully that having some additional fixture for the ring would be superior...
Some due diligence on my part though... I ended up soldering the BMS taps

as a backup. I figured I did not want those to fail, and the original idea of using the disconnects on those was skipped because the tabs I cut were just a little bit too small and the NiFe too thin for a secure connection without solder.
Also, I just kept having a vision that, the size of these tabs and the minimal amount of copper to transfer heat anywhere but the solder joint, left me wanting to avoid the potential for liquid metal in this assembly.
When I was testing, the spot welder easily reheated the whole tab sandwich including the soldered ring. That led to a spray of molten metal across the top of the cells cathode. Remarkably that didn't cause a short, though I forsee if I'd done that with all 23 cathode ends the chance that one would have shorted is... uncomfortable.
I didn't want to risk that happening during full assemble, nor the possibility that after assembly, a thermal overload during could cause solder to liquify in the wheel, and lead to T2000 level problems...
Maybe for the next round of battery replacement if it makes it that far, I will improve my soldering skills such that there would be only a very small amount around the base of the ring.