I don't see your problem being so much that you don't listen. It's that you don't make up your mind what you want.
I'm a lot the same, so it took me 4 years to build enough ebikes to be able to do it all. Always limited funds. Race bike, cargo bike, fast commuter, dirt bike. The ones I built trying to combine functions barely get ridden at all. The specialty rides are so much better at what they do.
Once you grasp watts and watthours better, it becomes easier to compare things when they are not the same voltage.
36v is different from 48v, because watts is amps times volts. so increase volts and you get more power in watts. increase amps, and you again get more power.
But the bottom line is how many watts. 72v x 10 amps won't have more power than 36v at 20 amps. both are 720 watts.
There are some rules of thumb, they are imperfect because if the equation is still not much power, you still have no power.
But in general, more amps increases the torque avaliable, while top speed may increase only slightly.
More volts, gives the motor a faster no load speed, so usually your under load speed also increases. Generally total wattage increases, so torque may be better too. But with the v increase, if you don't also increase amps you may still have a fairly sluggish take off.
Both rules run into a limiting factor, if the power is still relatively low.
The most popular upgrade is to increase both. Double volts to 72, and double amps to 40, and you get both. Along with a big ol EV grin.
But here is the rub. If you want to merely increase range, then get a 48v 15 ah or 36v 20 ah ping. You'll get range in the 20-35 mile ballpark depending on the speed you ride.
But if you want more performance, then you need a battery who's discharge rate will allow a lot of amps to flow without damaging the battery. I don't recomend a 10 ah pingbattery with a large dd motor and 22 amp controller because the ping is limited to 2c discharge rate. That means every time you pull a 30 amp spike with that 22 amp controller you just exceeded that batteries comfy discharge rate by 10 amps! Not a real good idea.
So if you want to add some amps to your ride, you really need to start out with a battery that can provide it. Look at getting a cellman battery, or an RC lipo setup. If you just want to take long weekend expeditions on your ebike, then get a 48v 15 ah ping. Bear in mind one thing, you will have a big perfromance increase with just a ping because the weight will be less than half, and you will see only a couple volts of sag. So you may be happy enough with a stock controller on a 48v 15 ah ping.
FWIW, I did do a shunt solder on a controller and ran it at my first death race on a 48v 15 ah ping. The ping hated it. I was pulling a lot of 35 amp spikes leaving each corner. By the end of the race I'd used ony 5 ah of capacity, but the battery was sagging like crazy, and took about two days to finaly balance when I went to recharge it. It was a new, but broken in properly battery, and I very nearly wrecked it in 10 miles of riding.
So don't solder your shunt if you get a ping.
Given that you want more, I recomend you go RC lipo, or A123's. RC lipo will allow a lot of flexibility in the controller you use. You'll love your bike if you have 18s lipo, and run a 72v 20 amp lyens 9 fet. I wouldn't recomend more power than that, (1500w) for front hub. you'll have about 35 mph. If you start with a 12s pack, your costs can be as low as $250 for 12s 5 ah plus a tolerable charger. And you can go right ahead and solder that shunt.

Then with small expenditures from time to time, 12s 10 ah, the controller for 72v, then finally more ah to have 18s 10 ah. Or, taking a different tack, stay at 12s, but get yourself a Mac 10T and go dirt riding on that mongoose.
But you can dip your toe into lipo for just a hundred for some 5 ah packs, and $150 for a mid range charger.