I'm not sure if I understand the last couple of posts, so I apologise if I am repeating the same idea in a different way (the method my boss uses where he suddenly "has a good idea"), but...
I don't know if a simple angled cone would have some odd tracking characteristics or not (Miles?), but I have an Idea for idea fixing that, which led me to an interesting additional idea. (clearly triggered by Hillhaters use of the word 'sphere')
Stealing a concept from NuVinci, two balls (or perhaps half-spheres, rounded portions towards the tire) that start out farther apart, with the smaller diameters rubbing against the tires (at a point away from the center of the tire). That would be low gear, and as I am using a 1/2" shaft, it would not be unreasonable to allow a usefully-small 3/4" steel sleeve as the core of the mechanism.
As you accelerate, the two half-spheres are drawn to the center to raise the ratio. All loads would seem to be balanced, plus the drive rollers are self-centering. It might even spread out the additional wear applied to the tire from a friction-drive. (although...it also 'might' require that the two half-spheres be mounted on two separate but parallel shafts, one motor, shafts connected on the other side by an HTD belt? OR...two separate shafts and cone/sphere-rollers, but only ONE of the shafts is powered, with the two rollers drawn to the center by an interconnecting lever?)
This thought led me back to my steam-engine studies from years ago. Spring-loaded centrifugal weights 'could' be used to auto-shift the gears? which would also auto-return to low gear as you slow?