So you propose mechanical change nothing electric,?
I don't know what your abilities are regarding your handicap or technical skills and how much help you can get to try a few things first.
I use a purely manual handbike with an extra rear axle to mount my wheelchair wheels backwards. That helps with putting more of my own weight towards the front driven handbike wheel. I don't know if such an extra axle or mounting points are available for your wheelchair.
I live in the Netherlands which is very flat but even I have traction problems sometimes when trying to get up a bridge especially when it's wet. And that is on pure muscle power/torque. To get up a longer slope I need to shift down to first gear and keep some pace to get up there.
As you have a direct (non gear) hub motor you can not shift down for more torque. The only way to get more torque from your set up is more (phase) amps from battery pack and controller and "gearing down" by using a smaller rim and tire. The cheapest way to try this out on your existing set up is to do a shunt mod on your controller if it's not programmable and put a smaller (less wide) tire on your rim.
You now have a fat bike tire on there. If it's a 20x4.0" tire it is probably a ERTRO size 100-406 (please CHECK!). There are other 20" bicycle tires that fit the same diameter (406mm) rim but are less wide (something in the 55-70mm range might fit your rim):

A 2.20" to 2.80" has a little less circumference and thus a little more torque.
To get more grip you should not have too high of a tire pressure. The tire should be on the soft side.
If you have the ability or help to shorten the tubes that attach your handbike closer to the wheelchair it will place more of your own weight towards the hub motor wheel. Even a few centimeters will help a lot in gaining more grip.
Best next modifications would be to mount a programmable controller and have it push more (phase) amps into your hub motor. That is if your battery pack can handle that and I would advise to use Statorade to help keep the motor cool enough. A smaller (16" bicycle) rim and tire to reduce the overall diameter of the hub motor wheel would be very helpful as well. If you google photos of hub motor wheels for wheelchairs you'll find that most have (much) smaller rims and tires than yours.
Good luck.
Here's my "acoustic" rig:

