There are many threads about various BMS types, if you look around for threads with BMS in the title. The discussions may help you understand the differences between different kinds, terminology, and what you need to know about your system and battery to pick the right one.
If all you need is one that balances your cells, but has no protections, you may be best served with a set of RC chargers that can charge sections of your pack independently.
If you need one with the ability to shut off the pack to protect it against overcharge and overdischarge, then you will need to know what the maximum current your system requires is, and get a BMS that can supply at least that much, preferably with some extra capability to spare, say, 20% more amps than you actually need (so you are not stressing it, and you have a little wiggle room in case you upgrade or modify your system later a little bit).
You shouldn't exceed teh capability of the actual cells you're using, however, so you'll want to look up their specs to find out what their limit is.