Interesting discusslion. I have been running different setups with both two and three controllers from one throttle for over two years. Up until now this was only with brushed motors. Always connected all three wires in parallel (positive, negative, and signal). Never have experienced any problems.
Having said that, Just started testing a new two wheel trailer with two brushless motors. Earlier last year I had one of these motors on a one wheel trailer behind my recumbent bike. It was too heavy, but would still spin out quite easily, and drew just over 40 amps during heavy acceleration or hill climbing. The two wheel trailer is working okay, but not quite as strong as I expected. Turns out it is only drawing a max of about 28 amps for each motor, even at near stall. I am thinking it is a throttle problem, perhaps not sending a high enough signal voltage. It is the same throttle that has been in use for dual brushed motors, but I never had any Watts Up meters on the old SLA batteries. I plan some more tests, but not anxious to replace the throttle until I am sure of the problem, because it is threaded through the handlebars and was a real bear to do.
Sorry for the hijack, but unless my problem is just a weak throttle it may be related to the above discussion.