...yeah, i got hit by that guy too!
It looks like:
- I can't turn this off in Xenforo
- You can't remove the follow
- Xenforo team not fulfilling people's requests to add an option, not enough people whining about it
- Some plugins exist but they're dated
So we'd have to find some other way to achieve this ( i have a few ideas )
Ramifications of being followed:
1) i get to see when you're online.
Not the worst thing.
2) I imagine i get some notifications when you do... anything! i've followed you to see what i get. I can't immediately gain more access to you by following you than i did before, though.
One privacy centric option is to change 'receive news feed' to nobody:
The 'news feed' is the 'latest activity' tab, which allows members ( and above ) to see this:
So yeah, if you are privacy centric, i'd change that setting for now.
Will report back on what happens with me cyberstalking cowardlyduck, hehe