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So those FETs start turning on around 4 volts, which is fine. Assuming you have, in fact, constructed the circuit correctly, I guess that the questions have to be:
1. What battery pack voltage are you using?
and
2. How much input capacitance is there on the controller?
Im unfamilliar with typical values here, but, if it was 10000uF, then a 10 ohm resisitor would charge that to 2/3rds of Vsupply in 100mS..
And perhaps 3. When you say "The controller gets full voltage straight away", what do you mean by "Straight away"? ie are we talking <100ms, or <1s