Dauntless said:
Didn't happen? You find it hard to believe he saw a girl that was out of his reach and it freaked him out?
What? lol. I'm not sure if you understand women all that well, but whether a girl is out of your reach largely depends on whether you think you are. Cogito ergo sum, so true when it comes to women. However, don't get me wrong... 'true love' or, rather, 'truer love' does exist... tends to find itself along the lines of psychological/thinking/communication similarities.
But, I won't go on length about that. I'm not here to talk about dating and the important roles of posturing and self-concept. But, my friends were pretty jealous how easily I talked with women.
But, anyway, this girl didn't really 'freak me out', I just thought it was weird how creepy her smile was. Seeing such a creepy smile on a girl is not something you see everyday, if ever. I figured I probably just discovered where they tended to hide; at the bottom of basements in a medical laboratory, lol. And, I honestly thought it had more to do with what it said about the people that tend to live in this town. Note, I didn't choose to live in this town. These people, however, did. And, I think it takes a certain kind of person to live in this area as an adult, among the adults who have the financial means to have a choice [like her]. However, don't get me wrong, there are certain fixed income occupations (like teaching) and fixed income demographics (SSI, SSDI) that tend to gravitate to areas like these because of the relatively low cost of living. And, I guess some people have family in this area... though the better families tended to leave to Seattle during the last decade... thought it was funny the local opinion columnist was opining 'all the good ones are leaving' last year, lol.
It says something about this town when more people have '[this city] doesn't suck' bumper stickers than affirmative ones([this city] rocks!, etc.). I looked online and apparently there's like four different designs around that theme, denying the city's suckiness. I looked at houston, which has 20 times the inhabitants, and I did not see one single design on the google image search trying to deny the city's suckiness. That speaks volumes, in my opinion, about how people /really/ feel about this town and about the kind of people who /BOTH/ have the means to choose AND choose to live here, lol.
(However... there are some people who do like the city's effectively white monoculture. This is the like the only at-least-semi-major city with that kind of demographics, not including Arizona. At least on the west coast.)
Wow, I can't believe it took this long to make me state some of the reasons why I'm moving. I've been focusing almost exclusively on the awesome benefits of Houston, and failed to mention this place's ample negatives.
The real reasons are really two/three/four/five/six fold.
1) Lack of primary industries in this city. This city doesn't really have any major defining 'profit centers'. I don't really consider medical care a 'primary industry', since that's largely a local industry with little to no export or production, so it tends to be more of a intergenerational redistribution of the wealth rather than an actual generation of wealth. Hence, this city is poor. It's does no particular thing really well, and does everything else mediocre.
2) Can't find anything. You need an I7 processor? Better take a 5 hour drive to Seattle, or wait a week for it to ship to you. Trying to find anything often gets the "We can order it in" line.
3) Climate. Lack of rainfall and 48 degree parallel sunshine means nothing really grows here. Even if you water it to death, it's often tiny and tasteless because the lack of warmth means little sugar production.
4) Airfares are like 2x the cost as it is from major cities. That makes getting to Californian conventions for the day a less economically justifiable practice. [this isn't really a dealbreaker like the last three are]
5) The culture of poverty. The kind of people this city attracts (Fixed income) fosters a 'culture of poverty', which bodes poorly for the economics of anything in this area.
6) Climate. It's cold and coldness just sucks.
Anyway, this location is excellent because it puts me next to a really profitable population center with huge defining industries, is a port town, has everything, has "big city infrastructure" with all its benefits, has a great climate and good rainfall, and you can find almost everything. And, I visited the area and I actually really liked it. Dallas and Houston are two of my favorite cities in Texas.