Lots of failures at 8A with that through the balance leads charger. It is really pushing them hard. I have one but don't run it at full current. I may change the connector on the charger, but it is not easy to do.
I would solder them, was just mentioning that similar connectors are used without solder, but they are designed for that and may be slightly different (and even a tighter fit). Also bus connectors don't have a lot of current, they parallel a lot of pins for the supply pins. The motherboards are also many layers so thicker and more depth/contact area to the hole. I would solder them for your use, you could test before soldering though.
I try to use 2A max per JST-XH pin as a rule. You can push them but they can get hot and eventually fail. When a bunch are in parallel for the batteries the current will divide, it is the supply connection that is full current that is a problem, in most cases I use a different connector for that one to increase the current handling, at least on the end pins where the current is higher. The current on the mid pins tends to cancel, but on the ends it is the full current (unless a separate connector is used for the main charge current).