Did you intend "why in the hell" here?
Assuming, then this is the only thru-axle motor I know of. I used one on my Cruzbike conversion (rear of the Cruzbike, using a front wheel - they're backwards). I don't know if the clamping force for a thru-axle matches the force of nuts or a QR skewer - perhaps you already know this?
If you don't like a torque arm because of the aesthetics, think about having a 220mm drum as your hub - that is the outer envelope of an All-Axle - perhaps the torque arm isn't the most visible aspect? I doubt people would remark on the torque arm and miss the motor casing.
Two variants of the v3 rear incorporate torque sensors in the freehub, Grin rates it at 250W in a scenario they say meets Euro/Asia specs, and at 4kg, it's heavier than a small Bafang, but much lighter than most other DD motors. Grin provides nothing that mates an All-Axle with a drop-out slot for anti-rotation.
I'd like to avoid the installation of the external torque arm. I'm road bicycle enthusiast.
Well, you suggest you can't use your BMC, so you'll need to pick something else. But you also want to avoid gears - that cuts out the small Bafangs and the SX2. The DD (Direct Drive, just so we're on the same page) Crystalyte SAW20 works for 75mm front forks only.
Actually, if you are bothered by a torque arm because you are a road bicycle enthusiast, why is the boost motor and bits on the BMC acceptable? What is it about the torque arm that is an issue that the boost motor and fittings isn't?
I'd reconsider about the small Bafangs and buy a couple of extra gear assemblies against the day. I bought a spare gear assembly for my SX2. I replaced the SX2 with a v3 All-Axle, and it's true that the SX2 is quiet (compared to the previous GMAC), but the All-Axle is quieter still. I haven't run a Bafang hub, but they are reputed to be quiet.
Another option is to paint the torque arm so it blends in? Others may not notice it as much as you think they will, but you know your friends.
A concern if you try to use a motor restrained by axle flats - your drop-out must be well fitted for the job, and that is not a design requirement for any higher-end bicycles - they aren't interested in your (or my) DIY. You're stuck with what they provide, and you had best shop with that in mind to get the least-worst drop-out slot.
And further along that path - if you enable regen on a motor held by axle-flats, you had better search for a very good and very tight fit between drop-out and flat. I'd want steel axle, steel nuts, and steel frame, and think about seriously over-torquing the nuts before I trusted that that arrangement wouldn't loosen itself during a ride.
But try it if you want to. I'd be interested in hearing of an approach using your requirements that works - let us know.