fechter said:
There is a high resistance resistor across the FET switch in most BMS units that allows it to detect load. Your voltmeter has a very high input impedance, so you will see a reading. If you put some resistance across the meter, like 1k, the reading will be much closer to zero.
That would make sense, but the LED voltmeter display (on throttle grip) also reads around 44V, so the resistance can't be that high and there is still a little spark if i short the output. But i will try with some resistance and see what happens. thanks for the hint
I bought this BMS from aliexpress, and other buyers had same issue as they have mentioned it in the review.
I have found a different BMS with on/off function which turns off the output to 0V instantly and will use this one for future battery builds.