OK, well, let's start with the battery. Full charge numbers should be 50.4 for 12S, 54.6 for 13S, or 58.8 for 14S. ASSuming that the charger actually matches the battery, Note carefully the big ASS, then the very first thing to do is to charge the battery.
If you had answered my question on what EXACTLY you do to get it to turn on after failure, I could be a bit more accurate here but you did not, so I have to ASSume, Note again the big ASS.
If you get 41V at full charge, something has gone horribly wrong and you should take Immediate fire prevention precautions.
Instructions for posting pictures have been posted dozens of times here, search for them, find them, read them, follow instructions.
Next, instructions and procedures for determining correct order for phase and hall wires have similarly been posted here many, many, many times. Search for them. Find them. Read AT LEAST three, study them, if you do not see the important caution about how to avoid potential serious damage during testing, search some more, find some more, repeat until that requirement is met.
It is highly likely that your first motor did not "fry itself" and what actually destroyed it is related to the above paragraph.
As for what kit would be perfect for you, I cannot specify as I have absolutely no idea what it is you are trying to achieve.
Other advice, used kits should be extremely de-valued unless you know in detail how to examine and test and used batteries should be considered as damn near worthless as you cannot know the usage history, not to mention cell types, brand names, construction methods, quality control, etc.
I am ASSuming, Note once more the big ASS, that you have learned to make certain the motor is securely attached before powering up.
Also, question why you swapped the motor shell for the current replacement? Brand names, markings, type of motor? WTF is a tit board, pretty certain it is not the same thing my ex had, but that would be ASSuming again, and there was definitely a big ASS involved.
Important note: when finding the instructions for determining correct phase and Hall order, look also for testing for shorts, as this is extremely likely after a spinout incident.