noise hasn't anything to do with fets, that's up to the motor physical design, motor speed, and control scheme.
more fets in the typical designs means more power, spreading the load between more individual cheap parts.
a good design with good parts (both of whcih cost more) and a good control scheme (software/firmware) with good tuning of controller-to-motor can get more power out of less parts.
with a typical bldc motor there's 3 phases so you will always have at least 6 parts, one for each side of each of three bridges, then mulitples up from there. 6, 12, 18, etc. sometimes you see 9, 15, etc because they'll skimp on one side of the bridge to get a little bit extra power but thats less useful.
don't pick your stuff based on numbers of parts, etc., pick it based on waht you need the system to do for you, under the specific conditions you need it to do it in, for the range/time you need it to do it for.
if you define the conditions, and your needs and how you want the system to behave, and how far you need to go, you can use those to figure out how much power it takes to do, what features it has to have to do what you want, and how big a controller, motor, and battery have to be to do that.
then you can find parts that do those thigns that fit in your budget, or find that the budget has to be increased to do whaty ou want or at least to do it reliably without risk of failure or fire, etc.
(moved these posts out of the diy newb faq since they dont' ahve anything to do with topic of creating the faq, are jsut another question to be answered

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