Thank you for your comments, Dnmun.
I used the bulk charger. It just switches of when 43.8 volts is reached. No sense wires to the charger.
I agree on you that the old BMS did not look dead at all. Nothing burnt. The voltage output was significant lower though.
So I checked the cells separately, all of them were alive. All wiring was fine too. I have used the original wiring on the battery to connect to the new BMS as well. There is no second set of sense wires.
Next time (if any) I will use the sensed charger (Thunder 1220 pro)
I agree on you that it is not wise to charge the pack without BMS using a bulk charger. Luckily all cells were healthy after charging without BMS. I did check the voltage of every cell every five minutes. Doing so showed me that the battery was fine and the problem had to be in the wiring, the connectors or the BMS.
I guess the old BMS (dissipative) allowed one ore more cells to get discharged to far to charge again using the same BMS. Normally dissipative BMS should 'bleed' the lower cells to normal voltage again. This did not happen and I ended up with an unusable battery pack. After charging the pack again, the old BMS did not open up anymore where the new BMS (capacitive) did using the same wires.
Finally, I am happy having the pack usable again. The new BMS costs 18 dollars plus shipping at http://www.freegopower.com (via alibaba). I decided to buy an inline Turnigy Power Analyzer Watt-Meter Ampere-Meter to attach to my skateboard as well.
