thanks for the fast reply.. i do have the same motors and controllers hooked to one battery..so all theee of the thicker black ground battery wire from the controller should be hooked to the frame?
No, you don't want to wire anything to your frame. If you do, then any component or wiring failure that shorts something else to the frame can cause a system failure or a fire.
or do i hook all three of the smaller ground wire from the controllers throttle
Just wire it as previously stated, and it will then work.
If you're not sure, draw out all of your system's wiring as it actually is right now, on paper or in the computer in Paint or whatever, tracing out each individual wire to be sure of where it is actually connected, at what points in the system, and marking every single connnection point wherever it is.
Just draw it as it is laid out on the trike itself, so that you can also use it as a troubleshooting reference for later, as well as a starting point for changing the wiring right now. It's best if you can use colors for the drawing that are close enough to your actual wires that you can easily tell which are which within a cable, and also mark each wire with a label to tell you what it is for.
There are many good wiring diagrams you can find on the internet and this forum that you can use as examples of how to make yours--if you can't understand a diagram you find, don't do yours that way.
Once you have that, then you can post it here in this thread, and then we can mark changes on the diagram you can make to the wiring.
i also tried to parallel my 2 48 batteries with an amazon 2 to 1 discharge connector but it zapped my smaller 48v battery.
If they are not identical batteries at identical states of charge, directly connecting them together is likely to damage them.
If they are identical and at identical SoC, they'll be the same voltage and directly connecting them shouldn't cause a problem.
If they have BMS in them, then if they are not common-port types, you'll want to disconnect them from each other before charging. Then you also only parallel the discharge ports when riding, never the charge ports. If you're not sure, just do it that way; it's safer.
If you aren't sure if they're at the same SoC, measure their voltage with a multimeter before connecting, and if they are not identical, don't connect them together.
so now i have one battery powering 2 controllers with 1 throttle, and a separate battery piwering the front motor/controller.
I don't see a front motor on the trike, just rear motors.