Damit.. had a long reply all setup and hit the wrong key....
I have on hand ( i took Bob M's advice on solder ) 2 rolls of Kester 44
1.5mm and 0.75mm diameter, both 60/40 Rosin Solder.
Last time i used the 1.5mm stuff i was not satisfied with the result, i ended up cutting the wire and re-crimping without solder this time..
Trial and error can get costly, but i'm not going to sacrifice my dignity like that.. if it's not right... Do it again . I swear i have a touch of OCD sometimes..
Sooooo..
With clean fingers, fresh splice, properly crimped, Iron tip set to 40w, i used a clamp to secure the wire to my soldering desk, tip side up.
This time i used 0.75mm solder, Hit the barrel at the seam with the tip of the iron and waited a couple seconds, once i noticed the solder flow from the tip of the iron into the seam of the tip, i added aprox 2 inches of solder wire into the legs at the top.. Just until i noticed solder at the very bottom fo the seam then slid the iron off all along the seam to the bottom of the barrel.