I also receive this response from another member.. So thanks for everyones help.. \
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•keep the sBMS always connected to the cells, no power off switch in the P+ supply line (you might kill it!). The BMS draws just a few uA in idle / sleep mode, so don't worry about depleting the battery.
•The sBMS interrupts the 'minus' lines, thus all negative (thick) power cables are connected to the sBMS: the one to the charger (C-), the one to the Battery (B-) and the one to the power supply (controller and other board supply) (P-)
•The positve end of the battery (B+) as well as the Charger (C+) as well as the controller (P+) need to be connected together too, but it is not necessary that this is done on the sBMS. The P+ pad is just that large so that it could be used as a connection terminal - however, you can connect them wherever it is convenient for you e.g. at the battery B+. Nevertheless you have to connect the BMS P+ terminal with the battery B+ for its own supply, but a thin cable is sufficient since the BMS draws over this connection only a few mA.
•But: you must connect/power up everything in the correct sequence otherwise you might be damaging the sBMS (1st B- to battery, 2nd P+ to battery, 3rd balancer cable; disconnect in reverse order. Therefore no BMS power-off switch!)
•the BMS acts as a fuse thus it is not really necessary to add one. I do keep a fuse in the plus line of the ebike board supply (light, controller supply, CA, ...) . I keep the fuse externally and use it as my key/kill switch . If I pull it the ebike is electrically dead...