OK for info, I have built a number wheels in my time even for a motor bike years back anyway I use the
Spoke calculator | Sapim for spoke lengths and most of the time I use Sapim stainless Strong spokes which are single butted or Sapim Leader 12g spokes. But before anything wait and get the hub and rim first which in both cases are to to suit a 36 spoke build. Found my other reply "For info when I build a wheel I use the Sapim "Spoke Calculator" tool to get the correct lengths for the spokes. I lace the wheel and screw the nipples down the thread of the spokes until the the threads just disappear, after that I turn each nipple in rotation say another 2 full turns then say another 1 full turn until there is the beginnings of tension then drop down to 1/2 / 1/4 turn, this gives me a pretty straight wheel as a starting point after which I did use a spare frame and a cable tie to tighten and straighten the wheel, but now I have a Minura Truing Stand and Gauge, regarding the spoke tension I do have a tension tester but have always gone on the spring between two spokes in my fingers, retired mechanical engineer so have the "feel", so far none of my wheels have fallen apart. Another make of spokes I have used is Halo stainless spokes which function well and don't cost crazy money." There is but I can explain that later regarding the lacing pattern.