Before I even messed with putting a hubmotor in aluminum frame drop-outs, I would make a couple plates from 3/16th stainless steel (or 1/8" hardened high carbon steel if you are going to have it water-jet cut rather than doing it yourself.)
Put perhaps 4-6 1/8" holes in the drop-outs that line up with the holes in the plates, tap them, counter-sink the plates for the heads of the machine screws (i would use some flush socket-head machine screws.)
Then clean the aluminum drop-out surface as best as possible with some solvent, apply a thin layer good metal/metal bonding epoxy, place your plate on, a drip of red loctite on the thread of each of the machine screws, torque them down, wipe off the excess epoxy, wait 24hrs and have drop-outs that you will never need to worry about, or need torque-arms.
And don't try to say you don't have the tools etc etc needed... I know you've got time, which means you can go to a pawn-shop, buy a $10 drill, a $10 dremel and a $3 hacksaw, then go to a hardware store and buy $4 in screws, a $1 drill bit, and a $4 tap, and you've got all the tools required.