Kit? No. All the kits I've seen go for cheapness of parts to maximize profit; some are better than others....but they still start from the same basic stuff.
Some motors are certainly better built than others, though (and same for controllers etc., but I suspect your problem is mechanical, and almost certainly caused by the maintenance since it didn't exist before that and started as soon as that was done).
For example: I'm still abusing an old Stromer bike's "500w" Ultramotor relaced into a 20" wheel on the right side of SB Cruiser, at a few times it's rated power for a few seconds at every startup, with an external controller (it runs at about it's rated power for cruising). Mechanically it's been bulletproof and silent for the years of use and thousands of miles it's seen for me (after who knows how long it was used on the bike it came from, under what conditions).
The bigger and much heavier MXUS 3k 450x on the left side has fared less well, and the one I used on the right side (replaced by the Ultramotor) even less well (broken axles on both, etc).
The QSMotor QS205 would probably be "bulletproof" in either of our applications, but it's even bigger and heavier than the 450x. I have one I need to put a new axle in (previous owner broke it using several times it's rated power in offroad use, with insufficient axle mounting, so it's still "bulletproof", just not "howitzer-proof".
), to test it out once it's laced into a wheel.
As for silent...as long as it's a sinewave controller and the motor is sensored and works well with it, it'll be as silent as you can get...with the possible exception of an FOC controller that is properly tuned for that specific motor (depends on the specific controller; some aren't silent because they deliberately generate "noise" to keep track of rotor position).
Various people riding under various conditions with various jobs their systems have to do have had varying results with pretty much every kit and motor out there, from what I've read here on ES and elsewhere...so there's no one kit I can think of that will work for everyone equally or equally reliably. Even stuff by Grin, who probably does more to vet their source products than any other company I can think of, has problems with some things.
And...anything can get broken or damaged during maintenance or other times it is removed or reinstalled, or any other changes happen, especially if it's by someone that doesn't know the system, or changes things about how it was originally setup or installed, if those changes/etc have the potential to damage something.