The spec sheet says the cells are capable of 20A when new, so 4P would be 80A. Even though they are used, they probably could start the car on their own, or with the capacitor, eliminating the resistor all together.Using just a resistor for this, the current changes depending on the voltage difference between the source and destination.
So you'd need to size the resistor so that the largest possible difference between them limits the current to less than the max current the least-capable part was able to handle, and then live with the lower currents you'd have in every other situation.
The problem I see is that there is an unregulated charging current coming from the alternator, and that likely exceeds the max charging current of the cells. Per the spec sheet, 4P would allow a 5.44A charge rate.