If your stator is getting to 125C, then I would consider that too hot. Since you put the sensor at the windings I'd call stator temp your reported temp after a minute or two of shutting down, so the copper would quickly become the stator temp and then cool down is slow after that.
Your thread title says 30kw peak. Is that reported AMAX of the CA times VMIN early in a fresh charge? Any idea of peak phase current. I'm running roughly the same total load with 245A peak battery current, phase current limit programmed to 370A, and voltage typically sagging to 103V. The highest temp I've seen is 105°C on the stator, and my gauge registers between 5° and 10° higher than ambient when the motor is cold. I hit that temp twice, once on a ride climbing some hills at over 80mph, and the other was climbing an average 20% grade. That is with ambient temps below 30°C, and my only other thermal advantage is better ventilation.
You shouldn't have to worry about temps, so if you're really getting 125°C at the stator, then to me something is wrong. Maybe it's just a combination of not putting the blades on, and having your controller set too high, but I never ran that hot even when I ran with the motor sealed. If you have your controllers set higher than mine, then you should have better acceleration than I do, but I've yet to see any videos that demonstrate you're even close to the performance I enjoy, much less greater acceleration. Was the Tesla getting on the gas, because in the clip it seemed like he was just driving gently? If he was heavy on the pedal, then yeah you passing him would be quite something, and I can stop worrying that you aren't getting the performance that I think you should. I've worried that the Kelly's aren't matching up well with the motor ever since you've reported heat.
Putting your bike on the dyno will be great. If you're really pushing 30kw peak into the motor, then we better see well over 20kw peak power out.