We have a lot of that kind of stuff around here in Phoenix area and surrounding cities--and the sand is even worse, cuz you cant' see it either but it makes for great drifting.
There aren't any guaranteed ways to recover, and even the unguaranteed ones arent' always safe to use unless you're the only one on the road and it doesnt' point at a cliff.
With CrazyBike2, which is the closest thing I have to yours, and the easiset of my bikes to slide when losing front wheel traction, when I encounter front wheel skid the first thing I do is point the wheel in the direction of the skid, while ceasing any braking or acceleration, and hope that keeps me from going down.
If the bike has already tilted far enough over with the wheel out from under it, you may not be able to do anything about it. My reactions are not that fast so at your speeds I probably couldn't do it; you might be able to.
The only other thing I can say is if it's too late to do anythign else, is to pull your hands and feet in, don't let go of the bars, dont' try to stop your fall, and let the slide happen. Try to do what you can to make sure the bike is going first, and you're behind it, and once you're already mostly on your side pull up on the side of the bars away from the ground to keep as much of you as you can off the ground while sliding.
(on CB2 this really helps because of my seat design--the frame of the seat keeps me from rubbing on the ground in a slide if I do this; it won't help much on a regular saddle--you could add vertical side bars to yours like some motorcycles have, front and rear, so your legs and feet aren't on the ground in a slide).
The only other thing I can imagine that *might* help is rather whimsical, and tha'ts to attach a push broom in front of the front wheel, to sweep away the gravel as you go.
I don't imagine this will actually work, but it was a funny thought I had just now. 

There aren't any guaranteed ways to recover, and even the unguaranteed ones arent' always safe to use unless you're the only one on the road and it doesnt' point at a cliff.
With CrazyBike2, which is the closest thing I have to yours, and the easiset of my bikes to slide when losing front wheel traction, when I encounter front wheel skid the first thing I do is point the wheel in the direction of the skid, while ceasing any braking or acceleration, and hope that keeps me from going down.
If the bike has already tilted far enough over with the wheel out from under it, you may not be able to do anything about it. My reactions are not that fast so at your speeds I probably couldn't do it; you might be able to.
The only other thing I can say is if it's too late to do anythign else, is to pull your hands and feet in, don't let go of the bars, dont' try to stop your fall, and let the slide happen. Try to do what you can to make sure the bike is going first, and you're behind it, and once you're already mostly on your side pull up on the side of the bars away from the ground to keep as much of you as you can off the ground while sliding.
(on CB2 this really helps because of my seat design--the frame of the seat keeps me from rubbing on the ground in a slide if I do this; it won't help much on a regular saddle--you could add vertical side bars to yours like some motorcycles have, front and rear, so your legs and feet aren't on the ground in a slide).
The only other thing I can imagine that *might* help is rather whimsical, and tha'ts to attach a push broom in front of the front wheel, to sweep away the gravel as you go.
