Well what you guys said would happen, happened. The rim where I over tightened the spokes now has constantly breaking spokes. I break spokes all the time. I have plenty of spare spokes from another hub motor which was totaled, just keep swapping them out. The wheel comes out of true every month or so, depending on how much riding I am doing. These are the larger 12G spokes you guys hate.
Should I replace the rim? I've been holding off because it was $130 last time, as cheap as I could get it. I couldn't even get the wheel true and I got the wrong size spokes. I don't want to put any more more money into this build, because I am sick and tired of sore shoulders and arms, because often I ride 50 miles a day. My hands are getting destroyed from constantly cycling all the time. I think it's time to get a car again. Honestly I need and want an electric motorcycle, but obviously cannot and will probably not have one for at least 20 years.
It will be some time before I can buy a car though, so in the mean time this is what I've got. IS it absolute necessary to replace the rim or should I just keep doing what I am doing? Swapping out spokes and truing the wheel on the go? I've gotten pretty good at truing wheels out of the stand. I can never seem to get the wheel perfectly true, honestly I'VE never been able to get a wheel perfectly laterally true, and CERTAINLY never been able to get a wheel radially true AT ALL.
I will follow the recommendations laid out here though if someone cares to lay them out.
Thank you