Alan B said:
Cost is a problem. The better lights get pricey quick. I like the Hella HIDs but $500 each, and that's before enclosing and powering them! But I suspect if you flash them with HID High Beams they'll at least consider turning their beams down, if that's the issue, but if they're running illegal lights then that won't help.
I've already tried simply flashing my own high beam at them, but in recent months I've only had a couple people respond to it at all--one of them an "offroad" SUV with lights over the cab, which they then turned on, along with spots above their side mirrors.

The car behind me screeched to a stop becuase THEY couldn't see either, after that. The other person actually did cut their high beams.
I have been planning on looking into pull-it-yourself scrapyards, and trying to find some HID systems I could pull from those--at least osme of the yards charge by the pound so it'd be fairly cheap to get, if I could find one intact. That's how I got hte motors for my first friction drive on DayGlo Avenger, and how I got hte brakelight bar prsently on CB2.
There's also quite a few junker totalled cars in people's driveways or on streets along my path to/from work, including a recent one right near my house, so if I can pass by when someone's home to ask, I might be able to purchase the parts off that, if that's what they have and they're willing to part it out.
The ohter issue is that from what I have heard in a couple local discussions about HIDs is tha tthey are quite power hungry, vs halogens. I can deal with that, but would like to go with the most power efficient I can manage to find...however I will take what I can get hwen it comes down to it, cuz if it' ain't bright enough, it doesn't matter.
Some other things might help like antireflective coating on the eyeglasses,
That might do some good, but I'm not sure--if I had mirrored but not tinted coating I could put over my helmet visor, I could try that, but all the mirroring I've found when I've looked also significantly cuts down the light, too, meaning what I do get from the surroundings from my own headlight would be reduced so much I couldn't see much, if any, better.
If the AR reduced *glare* from the other lights, maybe it would be a significant improvement--but I used to have AR on my old glasses, and it didnt' make any difference except for light from behind me no longer being reflected of the inside of the lenses, and inside my helmet that's not an issue anyway.

If ther'es another kind of AR you mean, I could look into that, though.
or finding a route less travelled.
There isn't one--at least, not one that would let me ride home without many dozens of--possibly well over a hundred--complete stops and starts, because of all the stop signs and whatnot on the side streets. 31st Ave from Peoria to Thomas (and vice-versa) already has about a couple of dozen of those, at least every half mile or so from Thomas to Northern for I guess about 18-20 or so, and there's another dozen or so between there and work at Peoria.
It's pretty similar if I take 23rd Ave instead, which is the other close "half-mile" less-travelled street that goes almost all the way thru, but that road has worse road conditions and more stupid poeple on it (pedestrians and cars), and an extra detour just south of Indian School Rd where 23rd has to go around an apartment complex and canal--there's no traffic light at the IS intersection of the side street I have to use to go around, either, so that can mean up to several minutes of waiting to cross IS to continue.
One issue with routes possible is that I-17 (black canyon freeway) runs right up the middle of the area I must travel, parallel to boht of the primary routes I can use, and because of that it greatly reduces the possibilities of where I might travel. Theoretically I could ride the "frontage road" on the east side going to work, and the west side going home, and not have any oncoming headlights in my face at all, but then i have all the poeple coming up behind me at nearly freeway speeds even far between the exits and entrances, cuz people use that road as if it was just another freeway lane, often enough.

it's also usually only one lane wide except up to the entrance, and past hte exit, to any particular "mile street" main road that crosses it. Typically has no paved shoulder, and mostly no sidewalks, so like Dogman did I could end up running across pedestrians wandering it in the dark--it's also poorly lit since mcuh of the freeway is walled off for sound containment and the lighting doesnt' spill over that much, not that close to the walls. Phoenix tends to turn off a lot of the streetlights to save power, and the ones that they leave on don't often get replaced when they burn out or begin to be intermittent.
And even if I took the side streets for all of the route possible, I'd still have to go back to either a main "mile street" or "half mile street", in order to cross the other "mile streets", becuase without a traffic light to stop cross traffic on those, it's often not possible to cross them at all--at least, not safely, without waiting there for 5-10 minutes or more at each one (meaning, every mile of the 10 miles one-way I'd be sitting waiting to cross for up to anywhere from 50-100 minutes, total, if I had to wait at each one). It's bad enough at some of them even with a traffic light, as it may take 2-3 minutes for a light to change during certain times of day, and/or cross traffic may ignore the light and continue to fill the intersection even though it's red for them, preventing any of us going the other way from getting into the intersection and across even when it's green for us--we can sit half across the crosswalk waiting to go for more than one or two cycles of the light before a gap opens up! That's usually only in the morning or evening, at worst rushhour times, and I'm not normally on the road then, but my work schedule does sometimes require me to be.
So I'd still be facing oncoming traffic, potentially, for those sections of the road. It's slightly better lit because it's close to the intersection, and thus easier for me to see since all of the light isn't coming from just their headlights, but it's still not quite enough in some areas.
Then there is the road conditions--most side streets arent' maintained very well, so they're full of cracks, potholes, uneven (rippled) surfaces, etc. Not all of them, of course, but quite a lot of them are, especially in certain areas I ride thru--the half-mile streets can be bad enough, as it is. I could probably find a twisty-turny route that would take me thru only (or mostly) good road areas, but i expect it would be significantly longer.
Then there's the idiots just wandering around in the streets, adults that should know better, standing there talking or texting on the phone, or whatever. That doesnt' include the kids that play in the street, or the dogs people let run around freely. Nor does it include all the car doors left wide open, or the cars parked far askew of parallel, etc.
Basically I'd be riding about 5-10MPH for so much of the ride because of haivng to watch for things like that, plus all the stops and starts, that it would take me at least two hours to go the 10 miles one-way to/from work, and it might take longer. (plus the bike barely really balances below about 8-9MPH or so, and only really balances well above 12-15; a side effect of it's length and steering angle/caster, I guess, as well as it's low height and seating design).
So, it's not practical to go a different route--really it's either 23rd Ave (backup) or 31st Ave (primary).