CD, did you buy that shock? It looks pretty good. Std design with the two adjusters. Lower red knob does the main piston bleed adjustment, and the upper blue clicker controls bleed on comp only to the oil/gas res. Although I don't see a schrader valve for easy gas pressure adjustment. The length check is simple. Just get the same end-to-end fully extended length of the old stock shock. You might need to make some custom end bolt bushes to adapt those bushes to the fighter's shock bolts. 8mm I think. I actually just used some wraps of thin copper sheet metal.
The alum bushes which you see in that photo should turn inside the shock ends. Usually they come out easily, and need periodic re-greasing. Aussie Nulon EP grease is really good stuff.
I think my X-Fusion Vector HLR shock is 220mm long. Not certain though. I'm 75Kg and use a 500 lbs/in spring and 180 PSI air pressure in the shock. I fine tune the spring preload for the type of riding or track and the rear is really good for me on my bike.
The damper valving in any MTB shock will be too soft for the Fighter. Dialing clickers in is a half solution. You need a lot firmer high speed damping, and bit firmer on low speed too. Reb might be ok. Check out the shock rebuild videos on youtube. It's so simple if you have the know how. Yesterday I put fresh Maxima shock oil in mine. Also a new bottom out stopper on the shaft.
With the DNM fork, if your pedals hit the ground then the fork must be riding too low. The problem wont just be the pedals or cranks hitting the ground. Your bike's handling would also be way out. Are you using 100 PSI air pressure in the right leg? You must. Some air pressure holds the front up a little and more importantly you need the air pressure to prevent the oil from foaming up inside the right leg damper. Without enough pressure on the oil, then the piston cavatates on comp hits, so on the next reb stroke there is little to zero damping. If you wont ride for a week of more, then expel the air pressure from the right leg, in case your inner seal leaks, so you don't get air inside the damper oil.