If you cannot test with another wheel, and you haven't tested this, or don't have the information anymore, then the first thing you need to do is perform this test, and the other similar tests that have been suggested, step by step, one at a time.
Then post your complete and detailed results of each test here, along with the description of the test you were performing and why.
If you don't, you are possibly just heading down a path that leads to frustration, as you don't know what the actual problem is, unless and until you test to find out what exactly it is.
It's very difficult to fix a problem when you don't even know what the problem is.
adamsavage79 said:
I also wouldn't really know what spokes to get that would be longer on one side, and shorter on the other.
I think you need to spend more time reading what people are posting. If you don't understand what they're posting, you should quote the part you need help with, and ask for clarification.
As I already said, spoke calculators would tell you which ones to get. Any good bike shop that does custom spokes could figure it out, too.
Or, as I also already said, you just lace the spokes differently if you have the same length, and it will shift it a little bit.
Or check the various other things that have been suggested, that I don't think have been done yet.
This isn't a typical wheel.
What, specifically and exactly, in complete detail, is not typical about it?