I use wooden wedges cut from paint stirring sticks in three different sizes, these are needed as well as the pliers to flatten the wire.
I have planned to 3D-print one wedge shaped rod for each layer thickness that would flatten the wire completely but haven't gotten round to it. If i do that i'll post the STL files.
No other lessons learned so far. I have the far end of the wire fixed and hold the stator in myhands and wind each turn. That works well but is pretty strainful.
I am not planning for Adaptto, i have had issues with my controller drowning during a rainy ride, got it fixed by Adaptto but now i have issues again. That's a long story for some other thread.. I currently run the Kelly KLS7230.
I have cut three slots, one for each hall and yes, i think the phase advance is not as important as the hall spacing between them as long as the advance is not too large.