I have had nothing but good luck with the DT Swiss ratchet engagement hubs. Much stronger engagement with the ratchet mech.
The alloy cassette bodies of a standard 350 get eaten alive by the BBSHD, but DT Makes a steel body that is unfazed by the HD's torque digging cogs into it. Cost is about $50. Less if you buy a take-off on Fleabay.
The DT 350 Hybrid hub is a beefed up version that comes with that steel body from the factory. Its ratchet is 24T vs. the 18T that come with the standard 350. Better engagement without any real loss of strength (also that ratchet is more sturdily constructed although I have never had an issue with a stock 18T). I have also upgraded to a 32T ratchet without incident, although I have heard that bikes that see singletrack should not go there.
ZTTO hubs use the same ratchet engagement and are lower cost - apparently the DT patent ran out - but I have no idea if they are acceptably durable.
I hear the SunRingle hubs used by WattWagons and their Bafang Ultra-powered bikes are able to withstand even higher torque numbers.
The DT 350's come in 32H. The Hybrids are available in 32H and 36H. Because the 36H's are unicorns, I have always built wheels with them using 32H, even on cargo bikes. Use a strong rim, proper high quality spokes, brass nipples, built by someone who knows what they are doing: 32H is fine.
Steel on the right, alloy after some time on the road on the left.